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Author Archives: indefenseofgettingoff
Every Guy’s Nightmare: Rape Rape
EVERY GUY’S NIGHTMARE: RAPE RAPE THE INCIDENT Summer 2004. I tell him he can sleep over if it gets late. We’re old friends from high school. I haven’t seen him in a few years. He lives in the Bronx … Continue reading
Every Guy’s Nightmare: Intro
EVERY GUY’S NIGHTMARE: INTRO December 4th, 2014 It’s every guy’s nightmare: learning that sex meant something different to a woman than it meant to him. Feeling that he had a nice, mutual, consensual, pleasurable experience that somewhere along the line … Continue reading
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The 13th Step: Descent
THE THIRTEENTH STEP: DESCENT I stay out too late Got nothing in my brain That’s what people say That’s what people say I go on too many dates But I can’t make them stay At least that’s what people … Continue reading
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The 13th Step: Ascent
THE THIRTEENTH STEP: ASCENT Some will die in hot pursuit in fiery auto crashes Some will die in hot pursuit while sifting through my ashes Some will fall in love with life and drink it from a fountain That … Continue reading
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The 13th Step: Intro
THE THIRTEENTH STEP: INTRO Two days before Halloween I’m lying in bed at 3pm (I’ve started waking up, eating, and crawling back into bed) despairing about how I have no friends. Which is sort of true. I moved out of … Continue reading
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Whorified
September, 2014 I clock in at two thirty am, well two thirty army—I mean European—time. Eight hours before it’s ten thirty and I have rise and shine to check out of my hotel room in Amsterdam—three stories above from where … Continue reading
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Public Property, Part Two: Cautionary Tale
Public Property, Part Two: Cautionary Tale October 7th, 2014 LAID BARE It’s that shoddy candy wrapper analogy (no one wants to eat used candy) imparted in Celibacy Ed class in states that should secede from the Union. Since sexual … Continue reading
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Public Property, Part One: That Kind of Girl
Public Property, Part One: That Kind of Girl September 14th, 2014 RUINED There are a couple of current events (“current” encompassing the past month or so) that are germane to the direction of my blog. Specifically, concerning the topics … Continue reading
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political pornography
Political Pornography ……………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………. October 7th, 2014 5ish years ago, during the Obama-McCain election season, an artist friend-of-a-friend created a brilliant website called “Political Pornography” to express her dissatisfaction with how women are disempowered by the political process. First she situated … Continue reading
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Face Fuck, Part 4
Face Fuck, Part 4 August, 2014 Culver Hotel I told him I was overly sensitive, neurologically speaking, post-orgasm. Could not be touched. True, somewhat, of orgasms resulting from mostly clit stim. Inherently unsatisfying, uncomfortable afterwards. After a minute or two … Continue reading
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